BOUNCE BACK TIP: When in a negatively charged state, be careful about the decisions you make.

Psychologists say there are two ways to live life: making decisions based on fear or on pleasure.

Pleasure-directed people choose to move toward what interests, enthuses, and inspires them.

Fear-directed people let fear of pain and uncertainty distract them,  and base decisions on avoidance.

It should be no big surprise to learn that pleasure-directed people are:

MORE happy

MORE balanced

MORE centered

LESS controlling

LESS vindictive

LESS jealous

Be forewarned: When you’re going through an incredibly negative time, you might temporarily slip into a fear-directed state, even if it’s not your natural way of being.

Happiness Assignment: Have recent events made you more fear-directed and thereby too focused on avoiding change, growth, awareness, uncertainty? Consciously decide to be more pleasure-directed–and seek out and embrace exciting new roles and pleasurable circumstances!

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