{"id":231719,"date":"2010-01-26T13:00:43","date_gmt":"2010-01-26T18:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/collegecandy.com\/?p=51957"},"modified":"2010-01-26T13:00:43","modified_gmt":"2010-01-26T18:00:43","slug":"tuffy-luv-tawks-seks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/231719","title":{"rendered":"Tuffy Luv Tawks Seks"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Question for Tuffy?! Email her at TuffyLuv@collegecandy.com<\/a> and leave a message at the BEEEEEEP.<\/em><\/p>\n

Tuffy Question<\/strong>: Hey, where all the lesbians at?! How come I never hear from you girls?!<\/em><\/p>\n

Dear Tuffy Luv,
\n<\/strong>I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we are just crazy about each other, but we are still virgins.\u00a0 We were originally saving our virginity for religious\/moral reasons, but we both changed our minds on that and want to have intercourse now.\u00a0 However, we each live in our parents’ homes and his family is super-religious.\u00a0 And if someone finds out, both of us will be in deep trouble.\u00a0 Apart from simply waiting, what can we do?<\/p>\n

–All revved up with nowhere to go<\/p>\n

Dear Revved,<\/strong><\/p>\n

What can you do?! Why, many a thing, young lass! Let’s see–<\/p>\n

But first, let lil’ ol’ Tuffy just lil’ ol’ say: ALWAYS USE CONDOMS. In EVERY situation. In ANY genital exchange, with ANY gender. Okay?! CONDOMS. CONDOMS CONDOMS CONDOMS.<\/p>\n

Okay, that said, first, I want to say that I am writing this advice to you, girl, assuming that you are of consenting age. Okay? Please, young ‘uns, wait till you’re ready. You should never feel pressure to have sex before YOU are ready to do it. No one tells you what to do with your body–you are your own and only your own.<\/p>\n

So, now the fun! Things you can do:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Intercourse<\/strong>: Yes, you can have intercourse. Just take it slow. Kiss a lot. Talk, giggle, don’t take it too seriously. Just do what comes naturally. And, importantly: Tell him if it’s hurting you. Let’s be real, girls, it hurts the first time, but if you have a gentle and patient partner, he’ll go slow when you need him to and it’ll be much, much better. And, frankly, if you don’t<\/em> have a gentle and patient partner, I highly recommend dumping his ass.<\/strong><\/p>\n

2. Making Out<\/strong>: What’s wrong with just heavy making out?! This can be a great precursor to sex. It’ll really help you find out what turns you guys on. Kissing and touching is the perfect way to experiment without having to go too far.
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3. Oral Sex<\/strong>: This is SEX – oral is NOT casual. You still need a condom for this one (sorry, kids – no one likes the herp). Okay, the main thing here is being equals; you give him, and he gives you. It’s all about reciprocity. And it’s also all about listening<\/em>. Don’t just get down there and try to look like a porn star; that ain’t doin’ nothin’ for no one. Listen to his reactions and learn from them (and expect him to do the same for you!!). And don’t be too shy to read up on the subject <\/a>for tips (so to speak).
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4. Manual Stimulation<\/strong>: You actually don’t need a condom for this one, but make sure the hands are CLEAN (and that you have a condom nearby, just in case you decide you want to switch activities). Again, feel each other out (haha. No, but seriously). See what works for you guys. It’s just touching to make each other feel good – remember, this is a person you love.
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5. <\/strong>Anal<\/strong><\/a>: Okay, not for the beginner. Work your way up to this one. And, if you do eventually go there, use condoms and tons of lube.<\/p>\n

Places, given the circumstances, where you can do said things:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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  1. Backseat of a car<\/li>\n
  2. Friend’s place (with friend’s permission, of course)<\/li>\n
  3. As a last resort, save up money and rent a hotel room during daytime hours (so no one gets suspicious)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    This is all assuming you love each other. Remember, kids, Aunt Tuffy Sez: Don’t rush into anything. Sex is so much better when there’s love involved.<\/p>\n

    Good luck to you, girl. Use condoms, be safe, have fun!<\/p>\n

    Hearts & Skulls,
    \nTuffy Luv
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