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Whenever I coach people in improving their love life, I always start by asking folks what they are looking for in a longterm partner. Everyone gives me kinda the same list. They want someone:<\/p>\n Whenever I coach people in improving their love life, I always start by asking folks what they are looking for in a longterm partner. Everyone gives me kinda the same list. They want someone:<\/p>\n
sexy, smart, funny, charismatic, successful, rich<\/em><\/p>\n I say it\u2019s okay to want these things – but there are 5 essentials which must come first — and if your partner doesn\u2019t have these 5 essentials, then it doesn\u2019t matter how sexy, smart, funny, charismatic, successful, rich he\/she might be — they will not make a good partner!<\/p>\n The following is a FREE EXCERPT <\/strong> from my OPRAH<\/strong> .com-loved book PRINCE HARMING SYNDROME<\/strong> (which by the way, guys, this empowering love advice also applies to making sure you avoid PRINCESS HARMINGS<\/strong> ). Voila… the FREE EXCERPT<\/strong> :<\/p>\n Prince Charming\/Princess Charming Trait #1:<\/strong> Does he\/she want to be in a committed relationship? (Basically, does he embrace character values that match with your values for a committed happily ever after future? Are there \u201cvalue deal breakers\u201d when it comes to marriage, monogamy,kids, religion, etc.)<\/p>\n Prince Charming\/Princess Charming Trait #2:<\/strong> Does he\/she value growing as a person? (Basically, does he\/she embrace character values that show he\/she has an open and growing soul\u2014values self-responsibility and seeking insights?)<\/p>\n Prince Charming\/Princess Charming Trait #3<\/strong> : Does he\/she understand that a relationship serves 2 functions. It\u2019s not solely a \u201cden of pleasure\u201d\u2014it\u2019s also a soul\u2019s \u201claboratory for growth.\u201d (Basically, does he embrace character values that show he\/she absolutely wants a \u201crelationship of shared virtue\u201d?)<\/p>\n Prince Charming\/Princess Charming Trait #4:<\/strong> Does he\/she make you feel \u201csafe\u201d in the relationship to be your fullest potential? (Surprise: The top feeling a relationship should inspire is \u201csafety.\u201d Without safety, you will never arrive at feeling love\u2014because you won\u2019t allow yourself to be vulnerable enough for true intimacy. If your man embraces high-integrity character values, then you will trust him enough to reveal your truest self!)<\/p>\n Prince Charming\/Princess Charming Trait #5: <\/strong> Is your paramour happy? (Surprise: If you want to live happily ever after, your paramour has to be happy! If he\/she’s unhappy all the time, he\/she will view you through non-rosy, dark-lensed life glasses! You need to find a man\/woman who embraces character values that help him\/her be emotionally stable, eventempered, addiction-free and full of high self-esteem.)<\/p>\n For more empowering love advice, check out my OPRAH.com-loved book PRINCE HARMING SYNDROME by clicking the LINK in the pretty orange highlighted area below. See it down there? 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