{"id":234958,"date":"2010-01-26T17:43:37","date_gmt":"2010-01-26T22:43:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.grist.org\/article\/2010-01-26-would-you-trade-bigger-house-for-happiness\/"},"modified":"2010-01-26T17:43:37","modified_gmt":"2010-01-26T22:43:37","slug":"would-you-trade-a-bigger-house-for-more-happiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/234958","title":{"rendered":"Would you trade a bigger house for more happiness?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t\tby Ashley Braun <\/p>\n<p>In <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2010\/01\/24\/opinion\/24kristof.html\">New York Times<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2010\/01\/24\/opinion\/24kristof.html\"> columnist Nicholas Kristof&#8217;s column on Sunday<\/a>, he recounts the story of then-14-year-old Hannah Salwen and her dad Kevin, and how a chance encounter with a homeless man catapulted their family into swapping their high-end home for a more modest abode and donating half of the proceeds to charity. Just reading that story either gives you the warm fuzzies (&#8220;So generous, so inspiring!&#8221;) or the heebie-jeebies (&#8220;Not everyone has that luxury, the show-offs&#8221;).<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>The Salwen family chronicles its tale from have to half.To push you a little more toward the warm fuzzies, I&#8217;ll point out that not only did the Salwen family&#8217;s &#8220;sacrifice&#8221; fight hunger in Ghana through their donation to the Hunger Project, but it gave them the added benefit of becoming a closer family&#8212;both literally and figuratively. By moving to a smaller house, this family of four was forced to be around each other more often, which they discovered they actually enjoyed.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We essentially traded stuff for togetherness and connectedness,&#8221; Kevin  Salwen told the NYT. &#8220;I can&#8217;t figure out why everybody wouldn&#8217;t want  that deal.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>At the heart of this story lies a deeper critique of the American obsession with consumption and the &#8220;bigger is better&#8221; mantra. We Americans shun the word &#8220;sacrifice,&#8221; but studies find that trading stuff for time with people quite often makes us happier, healthier, and more sustainable. Kristof cites <a href=\"http:\/\/www.pnas.org\/content\/103\/42\/15623.full\">one of my favorite scientific findings<\/a>: When we act altruistically (volunteer, donate to charity, etc.), we get the same neurological high in our brains that food and sex impart. Being good really does feel good.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Welcome to conscious consumption: it&#8217;s not just about what we buy (even if it is fair-trade, organic, local), it&#8217;s also about being intentional with what we already own and cutting out the excess. On a related note, because of the recent recession, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2010\/01\/03\/business\/economy\/03experience.html\">Americans are buying less, but doing more<\/a>. The Department of Labor, keeping tabs on how people spend their time, found that Americans were cooking or participating in &#8220;organizational, civic and religious activities&#8221; more in 2008 than in 2005. Cooking more? That&#8217;s music to Michael Pollan&#8217;s ears. Engaging with communities more? That&#8217;s a hopeful and meaningful sign of progress toward sustainable, climate-friendly cities.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>The Salwens are preparing to publish a book, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thepowerofhalf.com\/home\">The Power of Half<\/a>, about their experience of giving up bigger for better and how others can similarly donate excess in their own lives for a good cause. Can a teenager&#8217;s enthusiasm for social equity encourage a bigger shift toward conscious consumption?<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>For more on the Salwen family&#8217;s adventures in altruism, watch this video from the Today show:<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><strong>Related Links:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.grist.org\/article\/2010-01-14-raj-patel-on-colbert\/\">Raj Patel on Colbert<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.grist.org\/article\/2010-01-13-win-a-signed-copy-of-antarctica-2041\/\">Win a signed copy of &#8216;Antarctica 2041&#8217;! 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