{"id":323443,"date":"2010-02-15T11:09:55","date_gmt":"2010-02-15T16:09:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/notsalmon.com\/?p=235"},"modified":"2010-02-15T11:09:55","modified_gmt":"2010-02-15T16:09:55","slug":"love-tip-think-women-are-more-%e2%80%9cgrowth-oriented%e2%80%9d-than-men-you-might-be-a-female-chauvinist-and-it-might-be-ruining-your-love-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/323443","title":{"rendered":"LOVE TIP: Think women are more \u201cgrowth-oriented\u201d than men? You might be a FEMALE CHAUVINIST &#8211; and it might be ruining your love life!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/msnowe.files.wordpress.com\/2009\/11\/muppets-kermit-miss-piggy_l.jpg\" alt=\"miss piggy\" width=\"140\" height=\"190\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are the common denominator in all your relationship problems.\u00a0If you keep finding yourself saying<strong>, &#8220;All the men I date are emotionally unavailable, bad listeners, who suck at communicating and not capable of growing!&#8221; <\/strong> well, then, you must ask why you keep picking men who are this way &#8211; men whom I&#8217;ve labeled<strong> &#8220;Prince Harmings&#8221;<\/strong> in my book<strong><em> <\/em><\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Prince-Harming-Syndrome-Relationship-Essentials\/dp\/084370926X\/ref=pd_cp_b_2\"><strong><em>PRINCE HARMING SYNDROME.<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>When I coach some women, they explain how it&#8217;s not their fault &#8211; ALL the men they meet are that way &#8212; to which I say, <strong>&#8220;You, my dear, are a female chauvinist!&#8221; <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I remind these women that there are plenty of emotionally available, good-listening, highly communicative, growth-oriented men out there &#8211; and then I help them to jackhammer drilldown to understand their pattern of meeting men who are otherwise!<\/p>\n<p>In fact, wherever there&#8217;s an all-encompassing &#8220;always,&#8221; &#8220;all&#8221; or &#8220;never&#8221; excuse in your life, it&#8217;s a sign that your mischievous subconscious is setting you up for failure by consistently leading you back toward these repeat performances.<\/p>\n<p>In many ways, for many reasons, the subconscious should actually receive bigger and better billing than mere\u00a0<em>&#8220;sub&#8221;<\/em> status. It should be called the<em> &#8220;over-and-above-conscious&#8221;<\/em> because it makes so many of your life decisions.<\/p>\n<p>Your subconscious is why your diary can often read like\u00a0<em>Mad Libs<\/em>. For instance:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dear Diary,<br \/>\nI&#8217;m___________(mad, resentful, depressed) that ___________(my past paramour, present paramour, future paramour) doesn&#8217;t_________(listen to me, respect me, love me more). It reminds me of what happened ______________ (last week, last month, last year, next week, next month, next year) with ____________ (my past paramour, present paramour, future paramour).<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So what stops you from seeing that there&#8217;s far more love life options out there?<\/p>\n<p>What I call The 3 Cs!<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/bouncing-back\/201002\/are-you-female-chauvinist\">I explain what these are in great deal in my new PSYCHOLOGY TODAY column &#8211; and explain more about what FEMALE CHAUVENISM is &#8211;\u00a0and how to make sure it&#8217;s not ruining your love life! Click this paragraph here &#8211; and join me for the full article!<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Prince-Harming-Syndrome-Relationship-Essentials\/dp\/084370926X\/ref=pd_cp_b_2\">For more about my book PRINCE HARMING SYNDROME &#8211; which also explains FEMALE CHAUVINISM more fully &#8211; and how to better find and love warm, evolved, loving, committed men &#8211; click this paragraph here!<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><b><\/b><span><a href=\"http:\/\/del.icio.us\/post?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotsalmon.com%2F2010%2F02%2F15%2Flove-tip-think-women-are-more-growth-oriented-than-men-you-might-be-a-female-chauvinist-and-it-might-be-ruining-your-love-life%2F&amp;title=LOVE+TIP%3A+Think+women+are+more+%26%238220%3Bgrowth-oriented%26%238221%3B+than+men%3F+You+might+be+a+FEMALE+CHAUVINIST+-+and+it+might+be+ruining+your+love+life%21\"  title=\"Save to del.icio.us\"> <span class=\"bloglink\">del.icio.us<\/span><\/a> &middot; <a href=\"http:\/\/slashdot.org\/bookmark.pl?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotsalmon.com%2F2010%2F02%2F15%2Flove-tip-think-women-are-more-growth-oriented-than-men-you-might-be-a-female-chauvinist-and-it-might-be-ruining-your-love-life%2F&amp;title=LOVE+TIP%3A+Think+women+are+more+%26%238220%3Bgrowth-oriented%26%238221%3B+than+men%3F+You+might+be+a+FEMALE+CHAUVINIST+-+and+it+might+be+ruining+your+love+life%21\"  title=\"Slashdot It!\"> <span class=\"bloglink\">Slashdot<\/span><\/a> &middot; 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