{"id":347746,"date":"2010-02-21T12:29:24","date_gmt":"2010-02-21T17:29:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.discovermagazine.com\/intersection\/?p=6933"},"modified":"2010-02-21T12:29:24","modified_gmt":"2010-02-21T17:29:24","slug":"a-kiss-that-tells-a-story-the-intersection","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/347746","title":{"rendered":"A Kiss That Tells A Story | The Intersection"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-6932 alignright\" title=\"keithandstevekiss\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.discovermagazine.com\/intersection\/files\/2010\/02\/keithandstevekiss-300x234.jpg\" alt=\"keithandstevekiss\" width=\"300\" height=\"234\"\/>This week&#8217;s submission to the <a rel=\"nofollow\"  href=\"http:\/\/blogs.discovermagazine.com\/intersection\/science-of-kissing-gallery\/\"><em>Science of Kissing Gallery<\/em><\/a> features a special story that makes me smile. Steve Silberman is a science writer for <em>Wired<\/em> and other magazines, and his husband Keith is a middle-school science teacher in the Bay Area. This kiss took place during their marriage, which Steve describes in his piece <a rel=\"nofollow\"  href=\"http:\/\/www.shambhalasun.com\/index.php?option=content&amp;task=view&amp;id=3356\">Happily Ever After<\/a> featured in the <em>Shambhala Sun<\/em>. Here&#8217;s an excerpt:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Suddenly Keith and I found ourselves at the flash point of a raging culture war. Did we have to call it marriage? Wasn\u2019t that an unnecessary provocation for those who take that word to mean getting to the church on time? What about framing our commitment with a less confrontational term like \u201ccivil union?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Certain words, however, have alchemical power. A humble noun or verb can become a transformative mantra. Embracing the word \u201cmarriage\u201d had a subtle but profound effect on our relationship, like unlocking a door to a secret garden that only other married people know about. Now our job was to care for that garden together\u2014to nourish it, weed it when necessary, and give it the compassion and space it needs to grow and flourish.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Read the full piece&#8211;and happy ending&#8211;<a rel=\"nofollow\"  href=\"http:\/\/www.shambhalasun.com\/index.php?option=content&amp;task=view&amp;id=3356\">here<\/a>. Congratulations Steve and Keith!<\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\"  href=\"mailto:srkirshenbaum@yahoo.com\">Submit<\/a> your photograph or artwork to the <em><a rel=\"nofollow\"  href=\"http:\/\/blogs.discovermagazine.com\/intersection\/science-of-kissing-gallery\/\">Science of Kissing Gallery<\/a><\/em> <a rel=\"nofollow\"><em> <\/em><\/a>and remember to include relevant links.<\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"nofollow\"  href=\"http:\/\/feedads.g.doubleclick.net\/~a\/4EOU_r6yReIhiCxOe39CPDFqmxk\/0\/da\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/feedads.g.doubleclick.net\/~a\/4EOU_r6yReIhiCxOe39CPDFqmxk\/0\/di\" border=\"0\" ismap><\/a><br \/>\n<a rel=\"nofollow\"  href=\"http:\/\/feedads.g.doubleclick.net\/~a\/4EOU_r6yReIhiCxOe39CPDFqmxk\/1\/da\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/feedads.g.doubleclick.net\/~a\/4EOU_r6yReIhiCxOe39CPDFqmxk\/1\/di\" border=\"0\" ismap><\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/feeds.feedburner.com\/~r\/DiscoverMag\/~4\/esyxbxNdxs8\" height=\"1\" width=\"1\"\/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This week&#8217;s submission to the Science of Kissing Gallery features a special story that makes me smile. Steve Silberman is a science writer for Wired and other magazines, and his husband Keith is a middle-school science teacher in the Bay Area. This kiss took place during their marriage, which Steve describes in his piece Happily [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":641,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-347746","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/347746","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/641"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=347746"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/347746\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=347746"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=347746"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=347746"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}