{"id":362444,"date":"2010-02-25T06:00:47","date_gmt":"2010-02-25T11:00:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/notsalmon.com\/?p=246"},"modified":"2010-02-25T06:00:47","modified_gmt":"2010-02-25T11:00:47","slug":"happiness-tip-how-to-love-your-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/362444","title":{"rendered":"HAPPINESS TIP: How To Love Your Life!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--StartFragment--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i678.photobucket.com\/albums\/vv144\/soccerchicca\/LoveYourLife_quote.jpg\" alt=\"love your life\" width=\"204\" height=\"188\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Are you right now experiencing<strong> DEJA PROBLEMS<\/strong>? Are you enduring repeated disappointment in love, career, friendship, or fitness &#8211; or a combo of a few of these?<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">If so, you&#8217;re experiencing <strong> &#8220;programmed destructive beliefs<\/strong>&#8221; &#8211; via your subconscious mind.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">How do you know for sure?\u00a0That\u2019s easy. Life is difficult.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">As Carl Jung said: <strong>\u201cWhen an inner situation is not made conscious it appears outside as fate.\u201d<\/strong><span> <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Without gaining consciousness into your patterns, you can find yourself going from saying<strong> <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong>\u201cI\u2019m having one of those days\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">to<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong>\u201cI\u2019m having one of those years\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">to<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong>\u201cI\u2019m having one of those lives.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Today I want to help you change your programmed beliefs, so you can change your life.\u00a0<em>How?<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>I\u2019m gonna have you jackhammerdrill down &#8211; until you discover your limiting thinking brought to you by your pesky programmed subconscious \u2013 then we\u2019re gonna \u201cre-program\u201d your subconscious &#8211; turning <\/span><strong>&#8220;destructive beliefs&#8221; <\/strong><span>into<\/span><strong>&#8220;instructive beliefs&#8221;<\/strong><span> &#8211; so you&#8217;re supported and directed to go where you need to go to live your happiest life!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>I call this developing<\/span><strong> &#8220;PAIN-A-RAMIC&#8221;<\/strong><span> vision &#8211; where you&#8217;re able to stare at the pain in your life with a 360 degree lens &#8211; and view the gain in your pain &#8212; the lessons learned &#8212; <\/span><em>turning destructive beliefs into instructive beliefs!<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong>HOW TO DEVELOP\u00a0\u00a0&#8221;PAIN-A-RAMIC&#8221; VISION:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>1.<span> <\/span><\/span><span>Breathe deeply. Enter a meditative state. Dare to think about your five most painful disappointing life incidents.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>2.<span> <\/span><\/span><span>Become physically aware of how your body feels thinking about these incidents. Do you feel tense in your stomach, neck, head, back?<span> <\/span>There\u2019s a neuroscientific reason for starting with this physical focus &#8212; given to me by neuroscientist and psychologist Dr. Goulston. He suggests that to achieve your best stream of consciousness, it helps to start at the lowest spheres of your brain &#8212; your animal sphere \u2013 then rise up to your emotional &#8212; then thirdly head into your neocortex &#8211;<span> <\/span>your highest rational brain processing. This slow but steady upward search for truth is the least scary for people to engage in.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>3.<span> <\/span><\/span><span>Next up\u2026 Answer the following questions: \u201cWhen it comes to <\/span><em>(love, success, friendship, money, etc &#8211; PICK A TOPIC), <\/em><span>I believe that\u2026\u201d<span> <\/span>\u201cI don\u2019t believe that\u2026\u201d<span> <\/span>\u201cI blame my bad life results on\u2026.\u201d \u201cI fear\u2026.\u201d\u201cMy childhood taught me when it comes to <\/span><em>(THIS TOPIC)<\/em><span> to expect\u2026.\u201d \u201cSociety taught me when it comes to <\/span><em>(THIS TOPIC)<\/em><span> to expect\u2026\u201d \u201cThe media taught me when it comes to <em>(THIS TOPIC)<\/em><span> <\/span>to expect\u2026\u201d \u201cI had a trauma\/crisis which taught me when it comes to\u00a0<em>(THIS TOPIC)<\/em><span> <\/span> to expect\u2026.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>4.<span> <\/span><\/span><span>Put all your worries from step # 3 on trial &#8212; cross-examining each <\/span><strong>DESTRUCTIVE BELIEF<\/strong><span> like a tough attorney &#8211;<span> <\/span>until you are able to turn it into an<\/span><strong> INSTRUCTIVE BELIEF.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>5.<span> <\/span><\/span><span>Dispute and discredit your (b)lame excuses from step #3 &#8212; by gathering <\/span><strong>POSITIVE EVIDENCE<\/strong><span> otherwise &#8212; displaying proof of your talents, energy, and willpower to get what you want.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>6.<span> <\/span><\/span><span>Dispute and discredit your \u201cmythaken thinking\u201d from step #3 &#8212; by gathering<\/span><strong> P<\/strong><strong>OSITIVE EVIDENCE<\/strong><span> that the world has supported plenty of others in their dreams \u2013 so you\u2019re next up, baby!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>7.<span> <\/span><\/span><span>Dispute and discredit false fears unearthed in step #3 &#8212; by gathering lots of<\/span><strong> CONTRADICTORY EVIDENCE<\/strong><span> &#8212; proving your limited beliefs are just that &#8212; limited!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>8. <\/span><span>Complete the following sentences: \u201cLucky, unlucky me, from this bad time I learned\u2026\u201d \u201cLucky, unlucky me, from this bad time I became more\u2026.\u201d<span> <\/span>\u201cLucky, unlucky me, from this bad time I met<span> <\/span>\u2026.\u201d<span> <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>8.<span> <\/span><\/span><span>Find examples of consistently happy, people who are successful in your topic of disappointment\/pain \u2013 and spend as much times as possible with them \u2013 further shifting your belief system to the highly positive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span>I promise that if you bravely jackhammer down and get to the root of your limiting beliefs, you&#8217;ll be on your way to living a life you love! And while on your life path, fromhereoin your fears and worries will become a lot they scary &#8212; as surely as when Dororthy faced up to Oz, and discovered that little Ozzie was nothin\u2019 much to fear or worry about!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Enough-Dammit-Cynics-Finally-Getting\/dp\/1587612208\/ref=pd_cp_b_3\"><strong>THE ABOVE IS AN EXCERPT from my book ENOUGH DAMMIT &#8211; which you can find out more about by clicking this line, right here, RIGHT NOW.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mailermailer.com\/x?oid=20228c\"><strong>MOST PEOPLE settle for an average life. 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Are you enduring repeated disappointment in love, career, friendship, or fitness &#8211; or a combo of a few of these? If so, you&#8217;re experiencing &#8220;programmed destructive beliefs&#8221; &#8211; via your subconscious mind. How do you know for sure?\u00a0That\u2019s easy. Life is difficult. 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