{"id":389737,"date":"2010-03-04T15:46:46","date_gmt":"2010-03-04T20:46:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/notsalmon.com\/?p=253"},"modified":"2010-03-04T15:46:46","modified_gmt":"2010-03-04T20:46:46","slug":"bounce-back-tip-when-in-a-negatively-charged-state-be-careful-about-the-decisions-you-make","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/389737","title":{"rendered":"BOUNCE BACK TIP: When in a negatively charged state, be careful about the decisions you make."},"content":{"rendered":"

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Psychologists say there are two ways to live life: making decisions based on\u00a0fear or on pleasure.<\/p>\n

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Psychologists say there are two ways to live life: making decisions based on\u00a0fear or on pleasure. Pleasure-directed people choose to move toward what interests, enthuses,\u00a0and inspires them. Fear-directed people let fear of pain and uncertainty distract them,\u00a0\u00a0and base decisions on avoidance. It should be no big surprise to learn that pleasure-directed people are: MORE happy […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-389737","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/389737","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=389737"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/389737\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=389737"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=389737"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=389737"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}