{"id":493135,"date":"2010-03-31T08:57:47","date_gmt":"2010-03-31T12:57:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/notsalmon.com\/?p=296"},"modified":"2010-03-31T08:57:47","modified_gmt":"2010-03-31T12:57:47","slug":"a-great-question-to-keep-asking-yourself-%e2%80%9cwho-do-i-need-to-become-to-get-all-which-i-want-in-my-life%e2%80%9d","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/493135","title":{"rendered":"A great question to keep asking yourself: \u201cWho do I need to become to get all which I want in my life?\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i129.photobucket.com\/albums\/p229\/rarebreeze\/Life-1.jpg\" alt=\"ask yourself\" width=\"323\" height=\"296\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You know how Frank Sinatra sang <strong>DO BE DO BE DO?<\/strong> He was a great crooner &#8211; but a dyslexic self help guru. To achieve all you want in your life, it&#8217;s important to put the emphasis on <strong>BE DO BE DO BE DO. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You must figure out who you want <strong>TO BE<\/strong> &#8212; because your identity is the ultimate chooser of your habits and actions.<\/p>\n<p><strong>For example:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you view yourself as an organized person, you will choose the neatness habits of an organized person.<\/p>\n<p>If you view yourself as a thin person, you will choose the eating and exercise habits of a thin person.<\/p>\n<p>If you view yourself as a successful, positive person, you will choose the habits of a successful, positive person &#8212; even in the face of adversity and challenges!<\/p>\n<p><strong>YOUR ASSIGNMENT:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Here&#8217;s a great question to ask yourself when you wake up in the morning<\/em>: &#8220;Who do I need to become to get all which I want in my life?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ask yourself this question, then write your <strong>TO BE LIST<\/strong> &#8211; before you write your <strong>TO DO LIST!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For example, do you need to be more <strong>PATIENT<\/strong>, more <strong>COMMUNICATIVE<\/strong>, more <strong>EMPATHIC<\/strong>, more <strong>ORGANIZED,<\/strong> more <strong>DIRECT?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Put these <strong>TO BE<\/strong> words on a list, and really think about them!<\/p>\n<p>Work out your problems <strong>BACKWARDS!<\/strong> Ask yourself what &#8220;<strong>TO BE&#8221;<\/strong> quality do you need <strong>TO BE<\/strong> more of to get yourself out of the mess you are in.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if you&#8217;re having a work problem, do you need to more<strong> CONFIDENT,<\/strong> more <strong>DISCIPLINED,<\/strong> more <strong>INNOVATIVE,<\/strong> more <strong>OPEN-MINDED?<\/strong> Put it on your <strong>TO BE LIST<\/strong> and think about these<strong> TO BE<\/strong> words all through your day.<\/p>\n<p>Your <strong>TO DO LIST<\/strong> will go so much more productively when you write your <strong>TO BE LIST<\/strong> first!<\/p>\n<p>For example, if you have an important phonecall to make &#8212; and you look at your <strong>TO BE LIST <\/strong>and see <strong>PATIENT, DIRECT, EMPATHIC, COMMUNICATIVE <\/strong>&#8211; your phonecall will be energized to a higher level by your conscious awareness of your BEING these qualities!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/How-Happy-Dammit-Spiritual-Happiness\/dp\/1587611198\/ref=pd_cp_b_1\">W<strong><em>ANT MORE HAPPINESS TIPS? 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