{"id":522327,"date":"2010-04-09T20:26:06","date_gmt":"2010-04-10T00:26:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/firedoglake.com\/?p=77641"},"modified":"2010-04-09T20:26:06","modified_gmt":"2010-04-10T00:26:06","slug":"the-%e2%80%9cmean-prom%e2%80%9d-masquerade-continues-constance-not-the-first-to-face-discrimination","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/522327","title":{"rendered":"The \u201cMean Prom\u201d Masquerade Continues, Constance Not the First to Face Discrimination"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3459\" title=\"cdfa\" src=\"http:\/\/static1.firedoglake.com\/35\/files\/2010\/04\/cdfa1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"480\" height=\"311\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3460\" title=\"Picture 31\" src=\"http:\/\/static1.firedoglake.com\/35\/files\/2010\/04\/Picture-311-300x129.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"129\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3465\" title=\"masque'2010\" src=\"http:\/\/static1.firedoglake.com\/35\/files\/2010\/04\/Picture-35.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"255\" height=\"320\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A number of students from Itawamba Agricultural High School have\u00a0 joined the discussion on the post <a href=\"http:\/\/lafiga.firedoglake.com\/2010\/04\/05\/the-meanest-town-in-america-fake-prom-for-lesbian-student\/\">The MEANEST Town in America<\/a>.\u00a0 According to the most recent comments, there were <strong>three<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<div class='wbq'>\n<p>parent run proms<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>for students on the night of April 2, the night of the country club prom that Constance attended with five others. The student, screen name <em>fentdog<\/em> goes on to say:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<div class='wbq'>\n<p>I don\u2019t much about the school run prom.  I do know that everyone went  to Evergreen because more work was put into it.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>As the photos show, a lot of work went into the Evergreen prom, including a marquee tent with decorations like huge cut outs of masks seen above, balloon arches and disco lights.<\/p>\n<p>The student writes that the Evergreen\u00a0 event did not have tickets, that there were no invitations, instead kids were &#8220;told about&#8221; the Evergreen event. <a href=\"http:\/\/lafiga.firedoglake.com\/2010\/04\/05\/the-meanest-town-in-america-fake-prom-for-lesbian-student\/#comment\">The student writes about Constance<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<div class='wbq'>\n<p>people tried to go contact her, but she would never pick up her phone.   On the night of the prom, she goes to a different one\u2026the school  sponsored one.  She didn\u2019t know that everyone had decided to go to  Evergreen, thus she had a fit.  I can personally recall trying to call  Constance to go to Evergreen\u2026.but she never answered.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Hmmm, okay. So then why wasn&#8217;t she emailed, or Facebooked about it? And what about the other kids who showed up at the country club?<\/p>\n<p>The Evergreen prom\/dance party, the one which had photos that appeared on Facebook, the one with kids dressed to the nines cruising away stretch SUVs, the one &#8220;everyone went to&#8221; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.queerty.com\/what-the-prom-constance-mcmillen-wasnt-invited-to-looked-like-20100406\/\">where two girls where photographed tongue kissing<\/a>, shared the same theme as the original school prom which was to be held at the IAHS Commons, according to a memo, dated February 5, which appears to be from the school, issued by two teachers.<\/p>\n<p>The apparent memo about the original prom stated the theme, Masquerade. <a href=\"http:\/\/lafiga.firedoglake.com\/2010\/04\/05\/wheres-constance-photos-from-a-private-proms\/\">That theme is seen in photos from the Evergreen party.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>The memo also laid down the criteria for the students&#8217; guests. It clearly states that\u00a0 guests<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<div class='wbq'>\n<p>must be of the opposite sex<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Constance challenged that.<\/p>\n<p>Constance isn&#8217;t the first student to face discrimination at IAHS. Just before Constance spoke out, another student was forced to leave town&#8230;<span id=\"more-77641\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>On February 4, 2010,\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.wtva.com\/news\/local\/story\/School-Dress-Debate\/ykCINbiIaUC-t4jOCXDpng.cspx\">WTVA reported that IAHS student Juin Baize<\/a> was suspended for wearing make up, women&#8217;s clothing and boots to school.\u00a0 Juin, <a href=\"http:\/\/slog.thestranger.com\/slog\/archives\/2010\/03\/24\/itawamba-agricultural-high-school-suspended-a-transgendered-student-back-in-january\">who per Dan Savage,<\/a> currently prefers the use of the male pronoun, said<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<div class='wbq'>\n<p>They told  me that\u00a0I can not come to school dressed like a girl.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>The story continues:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<div class='wbq'>\n<p>And  that&#8217;s unfair&#8230;says Juin&#8217;s friend, senior Constance McMillen.<\/p>\n<p>She says a group of girls came to school  Thursday morning, dressed as guys in support of Juin dressing like he  does.<\/p>\n<p>Constance says the  principal immediately told Juin to go home.<\/p>\n<p>McMillen said, &#8220;Mr. Wiygul came to Juin and  told him he had to leave and\u00a0I stopped Mr. Wiygul and\u00a0I said Mr. Wiygul  why are you making him leave? Because he&#8217;s dressed like a girl? And he  said yes, and\u00a0I said you know that&#8217;s not fair because all of us are  dressed like boys. Why aren&#8217;t you telling us to leave? And he just said  I&#8217;m following orders from the school board and\u00a0I said you can&#8217;t  rightfully make him leave and not make us leave because,\u00a0I mean, it&#8217;s  the same thing.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Juin was was given a suspension notice and sent home, and when he returned to  school after his first suspension, he was suspended again. The reasons for a student&#8217;s suspension are supposed to be noted on the  suspension form, but that part of Baize&#8217;s  suspension notice was left blank, according to Kristy Bennett, legal director of the ACLU of Mississippi.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/slog.thestranger.com\/slog\/archives\/2010\/03\/24\/itawamba-agricultural-high-school-suspended-a-transgendered-student-back-in-january\">Bennett told Dan Savage:<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<div class='wbq'>\n<p>Juin\u2019s case was a situation where a transgender student wanted to attend  school dressed in feminine clothing, and the school  district would not even let him attend school.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Neither  the superintendent nor school board attorney wanted to go on camera with WTVA,  but both did talk to WTVA by phone at the time of the incident, telling the news station that they.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<div class='wbq'>\n<p>are simply following the handbook  rules, which allows a student to be sent home, if he or she is  determined to be a distraction.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>The situation escalated, and Juin&#8217;s mother, who had just relocated from Indiana to stay with relatives, moved Juin out of state to live friends, fearing for Juin&#8217;s safety. Juin is currently attending a virtual school, and the ACLU which was investigating the cae said they won&#8217;t be pursuing it.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<div class='wbq'>\n<p>Juin not being in Fulton makes it difficult for us to pursue any  kind of legal action here. And personally, I feel it may  be a better decision for Juin to relocate and move on with his life.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>The &#8220;distraction&#8221; issue is being used by the American Family Association to bolster the IAHS school board&#8217;s decision. In an <a href=\"http:\/\/nems360.com\/view\/full_story\/6938058\/article-Letters-to-the-Editor?\">editorial published on the Itawamba County Journal site, NEM360.com<\/a>, Bryan Fisher, the AFA&#8217;s Director of Issues Analysis cites a Supreme Court decision, Morse v. Frederick (2007)<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<div class='wbq'>\n<p>that school officials are entitled to restrict student speech and  expressions in order to maintain an orderly, disruption-free school  environment.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>But a reader succinctly refutes that, stating that Fisher misrepresents Morse v. Fredrick, which was case about drug usage, quoting an analysis:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<div class='wbq'>\n<p>Joseph Frederick, a student at Juneau-Douglas High School  \u00a0in Juneau, Alaska, displayed a banner at a high school event on which  was written:\u00a0 \u201cBong Hits 4 Jesus.\u201d\u00a0 The principle, Deborah Morse,  regarded the banner as promoting illegal drugs and confiscated the  banner and suspended the student.\u00a0 After the Ninth Circuit held that the  principle violated the student\u2019s First Amendment\u2019s rights, the Supreme  Court overturned and held that his rights were not violated&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Chief Justice Roberts wrote \u201c[And] that the rights of students \u2018must be applied in light  of the special characteristics of the school environment.\u2019 \u2026 Consistent  with these principles, we hold that schools may take steps to safeguard  those entrusted to their care from speech that can reasonably be  regarded as encouraging drug use.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>The environment at IAHS may come up very soon. <a href=\"http:\/\/nems360.com\/view\/full_story\/6951520\/article-Dual-Itawamba-proms-could-figure-in-court-case?\">Chris Keifer reports in NEM360.com<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<div class='wbq'>\n<p>The American Civil Liberties Union is questioning the motives behind the  two events as it drafts its lawsuit seeking damages from the Itawamba  County School District&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>We are disappointed at the sparse attendance (at the event McMillen  attended), and we\u2019re looking further into the situation,\u201d  said Kristy  Bennett, legal director of the ACLU of Mississippi.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhatever we  find will be brought to the court\u2019s attention, whether it is in the  damages trial, or whatever. There will still be a trial on the merits.  The case didn\u2019t end in the preliminary hearing.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3464\" title=\"Picture 11\" src=\"http:\/\/static1.firedoglake.com\/35\/files\/2010\/04\/Picture-11.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"283\" height=\"50\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3467\" title=\"Picture 40\" src=\"http:\/\/static1.firedoglake.com\/35\/files\/2010\/04\/Picture-401-300x241.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"241\" \/><\/p>\n<p>[ht <a href=\"http:\/\/slog.thestranger.com\/slog\/archives\/2010\/03\/24\/itawamba-agricultural-high-school-suspended-a-transgendered-student-back-in-january\">Dan Savage<\/a>,\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.queerty.com\/what-the-prom-constance-mcmillen-wasnt-invited-to-looked-like-20100406\/\">Queerty.com<\/a>]<\/p>\n<p class=\"akst_link\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/lafiga.firedoglake.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/share-this\/share-icon-16x16.gif\" alt=\"Share This icon\" \/><a href=\"http:\/\/firedoglake.com\/?p=77641&amp;akst_action=share-this\"  title=\"Email, post to del.icio.us, etc.\" id=\"akst_link_77641\" class=\"akst_share_link\" rel=\"noindex nofollow\">&nbsp;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A number of students from Itawamba Agricultural High School have\u00a0 joined the discussion on the post The MEANEST Town in America.\u00a0 According to the most recent comments, there were three parent run proms for students on the night of April 2, the night of the country club prom that Constance attended with five others. 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