{"id":567334,"date":"2010-05-17T10:23:38","date_gmt":"2010-05-17T14:23:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/notsalmon.com\/?p=312"},"modified":"2010-05-17T10:23:38","modified_gmt":"2010-05-17T14:23:38","slug":"broken-hearted-throw-a-divorce-party","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/567334","title":{"rendered":"Broken-Hearted? Throw a Divorce Party!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.informedwomen.co.uk\/files\/divorceparties.jpg\" alt=\"divorce party\" width=\"300\" height=\"268\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.oprah.com\/spirit\/Throw-a-Divorce-Party\">(Note: the following is an excerpt from my new OPRAH article &#8211; which you can read in its entirety by clicking here!)<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>The word\u00a0<em>shiva<\/em> has two different meanings\u2014in two entirely different cultures\u2014yet the meanings share the same underlying message. In Hinduism, Shiva is a deity who represents transformation. Through destruction and restoration, Shiva reminds us that endings are beginnings, and that our world is constantly undergoing a cycle of birth, death and rebirth.<\/p>\n<p>In Judaism,\u00a0<em>shiva<\/em> is the post-funeral ceremony when family and friends gather to share happy memories of the departed. Shiva is an uplifting time, reminding the living to appreciate the abundance in this world, and to seize the day (and\u00a0<em>kugel<\/em>!) while you can.<\/p>\n<p>I appreciate how both versions of\u00a0<em>shiva<\/em> remind us there&#8217;s a beneficial\u2014even beautiful\u2014alchemy of emotions that occur when you&#8217;re faced with an ending. A healthful\u00a0<em>shiva<\/em> perspective can help you view what seems like the worst of times as an opportunity for better times. For example, the death of an unsatisfying love relationship can be viewed as a chance to begin a highly fulfilling love relationship\u2014one that will thrive, thanks to all your freshly gained wisdom.<\/p>\n<p>Keeping both these\u00a0<em>shiva<\/em> perspectives in mind, how about celebrating the death of a marriage or any relationship breakup by holding a ritualistic breakup ceremony!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.oprah.com\/spirit\/Throw-a-Divorce-Party\"><strong>Click here to find out how people all around the world are presently throwing themselves divorce parties to bounce back happier than ever \u00a0&#8211; in my new OPRAH article!<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><b><\/b><span><a href=\"http:\/\/del.icio.us\/post?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotsalmon.com%2F2010%2F05%2F17%2Fbroken-hearted-throw-a-divorce-party%2F&amp;title=Broken-Hearted%3F+Throw+a+Divorce+Party%21\"  title=\"Save to del.icio.us\"> <span class=\"bloglink\">del.icio.us<\/span><\/a> &middot; <a href=\"http:\/\/slashdot.org\/bookmark.pl?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotsalmon.com%2F2010%2F05%2F17%2Fbroken-hearted-throw-a-divorce-party%2F&amp;title=Broken-Hearted%3F+Throw+a+Divorce+Party%21\"  title=\"Slashdot It!\"> <span class=\"bloglink\">Slashdot<\/span><\/a> &middot; <a href=\"http:\/\/digg.com\/submit?phase=2&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotsalmon.com%2F2010%2F05%2F17%2Fbroken-hearted-throw-a-divorce-party%2F&amp;title=Broken-Hearted%3F+Throw+a+Divorce+Party%21\"  title=\"Digg This Post!\"> <span class=\"bloglink\">Digg<\/span><\/a> &middot; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/share.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fnotsalmon.com%2F2010%2F05%2F17%2Fbroken-hearted-throw-a-divorce-party%2F\"\"  title=\"Share on Facebook!\"> <span class=\"bloglink\">Facebook<\/span><\/a> &middot; <a href=\"http:\/\/technorati.com\/faves?add=http%3A%2F%2Fnotsalmon.com%2F2010%2F05%2F17%2Fbroken-hearted-throw-a-divorce-party%2F\"  title=\"Add to my Technorati Favorites!\"> <span class=\"bloglink\">Technorati<\/span><\/a> &middot; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.google.com\/bookmarks\/mark?op=edit&amp;output=popup&amp;bkmk=http%3A%2F%2Fnotsalmon.com%2F2010%2F05%2F17%2Fbroken-hearted-throw-a-divorce-party%2F&amp;title=Broken-Hearted%3F+Throw+a+Divorce+Party%21\"  title=\"Add to my Google Bookmarks!\"> <span class=\"bloglink\">Google<\/span><\/a> &middot; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.stumbleupon.com\/submit?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnotsalmon.com%2F2010%2F05%2F17%2Fbroken-hearted-throw-a-divorce-party%2F&amp;title=Broken-Hearted%3F+Throw+a+Divorce+Party%21\"  title=\"Stumble it!\"> <span class=\"bloglink\">StumbleUpon<\/span><\/a> &middot; <a href=\"http:\/\/myweb2.search.yahoo.com\/myresults\/bookmarklet?u=http%3A%2F%2Fnotsalmon.com%2F2010%2F05%2F17%2Fbroken-hearted-throw-a-divorce-party%2F&#038;t=Broken-Hearted%3F+Throw+a+Divorce+Party%21\"  title=\"Add to Yahoo!\"> <span class=\"bloglink\">Yahoo<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(Note: the following is an excerpt from my new OPRAH article &#8211; which you can read in its entirety by clicking here!) The word\u00a0shiva has two different meanings\u2014in two entirely different cultures\u2014yet the meanings share the same underlying message. In Hinduism, Shiva is a deity who represents transformation. Through destruction and restoration, Shiva reminds us [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-567334","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/567334","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=567334"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/567334\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=567334"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=567334"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=567334"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}