{"id":644639,"date":"2013-02-28T19:53:58","date_gmt":"2013-03-01T00:53:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ted.com\/?p=70333"},"modified":"2013-02-28T19:53:58","modified_gmt":"2013-03-01T00:53:58","slug":"i-was-watching-like-no-one-was-dancing-allison-hunt-at-ted2013","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/644639","title":{"rendered":"&ldquo;I was watching like no one was dancing&rdquo;: Allison Hunt at TED2013"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_71836\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\" style=\"width: 910px\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-71836\" alt=\"Photo: James Duncan Davidson\" src=\"http:\/\/tedconfblog.files.wordpress.com\/2013\/02\/ted2013_0062721_dsc_8176.jpg?w=900&#038;h=690\" width=\"900\" height=\"690\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo: James Duncan Davidson<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html\" class=\"video_teaser\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/images.ted.com\/images\/ted\/4e1c25357f3ddd259c2eb15871337c2f0172f5a0_240x180.jpg\" alt=\"Bren\u00e9 Brown: The power of vulnerability\" width=\"132\" height=\"99\" \/>Bren\u00e9 Brown: The power of vulnerability<span class=\"play\"><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If you&#8217;re middle-aged and North American, you probably learned to dance when you were in a gymnasium in junior high.&#8221;\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.hatchresearch.com\/\">Allison Hunt<\/a> didn&#8217;t get that training, because her mother was always chaperoning the dances, and worse than that: dancing. What could be more\u00a0embarrassing\u00a0to a teenager? She says: &#8220;You know the expression, dance like no one is watching? I was at the back of the gym watching like no one was dancing.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>In this short audience talk, Hunt talks about what happened after her recent hip replacement. She was recovering, and saw Bren\u00e9 Brown&#8217;s talk on vulnerability. Deciding that she needed to get past the\u00a0embarrassment of the past, she took private hip-hop lessons. One on one. &#8220;I take my vulnerability very seriously.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The good news: You don&#8217;t need to move your feet. It&#8217;s all upper-body. As her instructor said, &#8220;When you&#8217;re in a club on the dance floor,\u00a0no one can see your feet.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So she learned, and she shares four rules of hip-hop that helped her relax.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>No smiling in hip-hop.<\/li>\n<li>Remember you have hands. If you don&#8217;t, you will default into jazz-hands or the dreaded finger guns. Use fists, that&#8217;s more badass. That&#8217;s more, &#8220;I think &#8216;mother&#8217; is half a word.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Music is vital. Don&#8217;t be caught dancing without it.<\/li>\n<li>The louder the music, the better you dance.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>  <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http:\/\/feeds.wordpress.com\/1.0\/gocomments\/tedconfblog.wordpress.com\/70333\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/feeds.wordpress.com\/1.0\/comments\/tedconfblog.wordpress.com\/70333\/\" \/><\/a> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/stats.wordpress.com\/b.gif?host=blog.ted.com&#038;blog=14795620&#038;%23038;post=70333&#038;%23038;subd=tedconfblog&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/feeds.feedburner.com\/~r\/TEDBlog\/~4\/SyA1y67VYQY\" height=\"1\" width=\"1\"\/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Photo: James Duncan Davidson Bren\u00e9 Brown: The power of vulnerability &#8220;If you&#8217;re middle-aged and North American, you probably learned to dance when you were in a gymnasium in junior high.&#8221;\u00a0Allison Hunt didn&#8217;t get that training, because her mother was always chaperoning the dances, and worse than that: dancing. What could be more\u00a0embarrassing\u00a0to a teenager? 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