{"id":646015,"date":"2013-03-08T11:39:51","date_gmt":"2013-03-08T16:39:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ted.com\/?p=72542"},"modified":"2013-03-08T11:51:15","modified_gmt":"2013-03-08T16:51:15","slug":"8-beautiful-and-heartbreaking-poems-from-shane-koyczan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/646015","title":{"rendered":"8 beautiful and heartbreaking poems from Shane Koyczan"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align:center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/shane_koyczan_to_this_day_for_the_bullied_and_beautiful.html\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-72543\" alt=\"Shane-Koyczan\" src=\"http:\/\/tedconfblog.files.wordpress.com\/2013\/03\/shane-koyczan.jpg?w=900\"   \/><\/a>Shane Koyczan has a way with words.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/shane_koyczan_to_this_day_for_the_bullied_and_beautiful.html\" class=\"video_teaser\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/images.ted.com\/images\/ted\/df7b1a3e1fe1b7ad65f630942d9e8c330b4ac9b4_240x180.jpg\" alt=\"Shane Koyczan: &quot;To This Day&quot; ... for the bullied and beautiful\" width=\"132\" height=\"99\" \/>Shane Koyczan: &quot;To This Day&quot; &#8230; for the bullied and beautiful<span class=\"play\"><\/span><\/a> \u201cI\u2019ve been shot down so many times I get altitude sickness just from standing up for myself,\u201d he says, beginning <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/shane_koyczan_to_this_day_for_the_bullied_and_beautiful.html\">today\u2019s talk<\/a>. \u201cThat\u2019s what we were told\u2014stand up for yourself. But that\u2019s hard to do if you don\u2019t know who you are.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Koyczan appeared on the TED2013 stage just a week after his spoken-word poem, \u201cTo This Day,\u201d went viral as a <a href=\"http:\/\/tothisdayproject.com\/\">crowd-animated video<\/a>. Live onstage, mixing poetry and prose, Koyczan explains to the audience what prompted to him to write the poem, an ode to anyone who felt bullied or left out as a child, and have it animated by people around the world. Koyczan says it wasn\u2019t just overt bullying he was reacting to &#8212; but the subtle discouragement kids receive along the path to adulthood, as they\u2019re required to define themselves in narrower and narrower ways.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAt the same time as we were being told who we were, we were being asked, \u2018What do you want to be when you grow up?\u2019\u201d Koyczan\u2019s answers were: a writer, then a professional wrestler. Both ideas were shot down.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What made my dreams so easy to dismiss?\u201d he asks. \u201cGranted my dreams are shy, because they&#8217;re Canadian. My dreams are self-conscious and overly apologetic\u2014they&#8217;re standing alone at the high school dance and they&#8217;ve never been kissed. See, my dreams got called names too &#8212; silly, foolish, impossible.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>To hear more of Koyczan\u2019s motivation, and to hear a beautiful live rendition of \u201cTo This Day,\u201d <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/shane_koyczan_to_this_day_for_the_bullied_and_beautiful.html\">watch this talk<\/a>. For more of Koyczan\u2019s poems, read on.<\/p>\n<p><span class='embed-youtube' style='text-align:center; display: block;'><iframe class='youtube-player' type='text\/html' width='586' height='360' src='http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/zsq68qRexFc?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;%23038;fs=1&#038;%23038;showsearch=0&#038;%23038;showinfo=1&#038;%23038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;%23038;wmode=transparent' frameborder='0'><\/iframe><\/span><\/p>\n<p>A proud Canuck, Koyczan wrote the poem \u201cWe Are More\u201d for the Canadian Tourism Commission. He even performed it at the opening ceremonies of the Vancouver 2010 Winter Olympics, for a television audience of more than 1 billion people. \u201cWe&#8217;re more than hockey and fishing lines\/ off the rocky coast of the Maritimes\/ some say what defines us\/ is something as simple as please and thank you,\u201d spits Koyczan in this poem. \u201cBut we are more than genteel or civilized\/ we are an idea in the process of being realized.\u201d <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=Z5lQIRl8ijk\">See a version of the poem with visuals<\/a>.<\/p>\n<div class=\"embed-youtube\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"586\" height=\"330\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/cnFAGgKB-wA?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>Koyczan got some help in sharing these \u201cInstructions for a Bad Day\u201d from a group of students at G.P. Vanier secondary school in British Columbia. They wrote the storyboard for the video, handled the cameras, did the acting and collected the props. The piece was created for Pink Shirt Day \u2014 a national day devoted to the discussion of bullying.<\/p>\n<p><span class='embed-youtube' style='text-align:center; display: block;'><iframe class='youtube-player' type='text\/html' width='586' height='360' src='http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/6VrZE8MCnIA?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;%23038;fs=1&#038;%23038;showsearch=0&#038;%23038;showinfo=1&#038;%23038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;%23038;wmode=transparent' frameborder='0'><\/iframe><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Here, Koyczan performs \u201cThe Crickets Have Arthritis\u201d at Words Aloud in 2007. A heartbreaking love letter to his 9-year-old hospital roommate, Louis, the poem begins, \u201cIt doesn&#8217;t matter why I was there, where the air is sterile and the sheets sting. It doesn\u2019t matter that I was hooked up to this thing that buzzed and beeped every time my heart leaped like a man whose faith tells him God&#8217;s hands are big enough to catch an airplane, or a world.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"embed-vimeo\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/42956074\" width=\"586\" height=\"330\" frameborder=\"0\" webkitAllowFullScreen mozallowfullscreen allowFullScreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>Yes, Koyczan does on occasion write love poems. Here is \u201cMore Often Than Sometimes,\u201d in a new video produced by Amazing Factory Productions and posted just two weeks ago as part of the Giants of the Forest series. \u201cI think of her more often than sometimes\/ If she ever hears this\/ I want her to know that\/ Our first kiss tasted like pepper,\u201d he says. \u201cWe loved like two games of solitaire\/ Waiting to be played by one another.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"embed-youtube\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"586\" height=\"330\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/NBVJuA0jr6Y?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>In January, during an event to mark the closing of the Waldorf Hotel in Vancouver after 63 years, Koyczan performs the poem \u201cRemember How We Forgot.\u201d His words are beautifully backed, as they were on the TED stage, by violinist Hannah Epperson. \u201cOnce upon a time we were young\/ our dreams hung like apples waiting to be picked and peeled,\u201d flows Koyczan.<\/p>\n<p><span class='embed-youtube' style='text-align:center; display: block;'><iframe class='youtube-player' type='text\/html' width='586' height='360' src='http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/4PIQLTYida4?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;%23038;fs=1&#038;%23038;showsearch=0&#038;%23038;showinfo=1&#038;%23038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;%23038;wmode=transparent' frameborder='0'><\/iframe><\/span><\/p>\n<p>The words that begin the poem \u201cAtlantis,\u201d performed here at Words Aloud in 2007, may just get you: \u201cYour entire body shakes when you laugh\/ as if your sense was built on a fault line\/ and the coast of your heart falls into the ocean of yourself\/ and you\u2019re left looking for Atlantis.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"embed-vimeo\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/54303086\" width=\"586\" height=\"330\" frameborder=\"0\" webkitAllowFullScreen mozallowfullscreen allowFullScreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>Here, Koyczan\u2019s poem \u201cEducate the Heart,\u201d created for the Dalai Lama Center. In a <a href=\"http:\/\/vimeo.com\/54303086\">video about writing the poem<\/a>, Koyczan stops reciting and talks boldly about how our culture values the wrong things. \u201cSomewhere along the way we got very invested in things that don\u2019t care about us,\u201d says Koyczan. \u201cMoney doesn\u2019t love you. Your car isn\u2019t going to sit down and hold your hand if your kid is sick.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/shanekoyczan.us4.list-manage.com\/subscribe?u=68aa4ca65231505b01de13c34&amp;id=56cbdabb22\">Want more from this poet? Subscribe to get a new poem from Koyczan every week \u00bb<\/a><\/p>\n<p>  <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http:\/\/feeds.wordpress.com\/1.0\/gocomments\/tedconfblog.wordpress.com\/72542\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/feeds.wordpress.com\/1.0\/comments\/tedconfblog.wordpress.com\/72542\/\" \/><\/a> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/stats.wordpress.com\/b.gif?host=blog.ted.com&#038;blog=14795620&#038;%23038;post=72542&#038;%23038;subd=tedconfblog&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/feeds.feedburner.com\/~r\/TEDBlog\/~4\/vpdSoKYdguo\" height=\"1\" width=\"1\"\/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shane Koyczan has a way with words. Shane Koyczan: &quot;To This Day&quot; &#8230; for the bullied and beautiful \u201cI\u2019ve been shot down so many times I get altitude sickness just from standing up for myself,\u201d he says, beginning today\u2019s talk. \u201cThat\u2019s what we were told\u2014stand up for yourself. But that\u2019s hard to do if you [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7344,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-646015","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/646015","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7344"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=646015"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/646015\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=646015"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=646015"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=646015"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}