{"id":658022,"date":"2013-05-14T12:13:59","date_gmt":"2013-05-14T16:13:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.ted.com\/?p=75805"},"modified":"2013-05-14T12:13:59","modified_gmt":"2013-05-14T16:13:59","slug":"7-talks-that-will-encourage-you-to-talk-to-strangers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mereja.media\/index\/658022","title":{"rendered":"7 talks that will encourage you to talk to strangers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75806\" alt=\"Maria-Bezaitis-at-TED@Intel\" src=\"http:\/\/tedconfblog.files.wordpress.com\/2013\/05\/maria-bezaitis-at-tedintel.jpg?w=900\"   \/>In <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/maria_bezaitis_the_surprising_need_for_strangeness.html\">today\u2019s talk<\/a>, Intel engineer Maria Bezaitis brings up a fascinating point: why is the phrase \u201cdon\u2019t talk to strangers\u201d such a part of our cultural zeitgeist?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/maria_bezaitis_the_surprising_need_for_strangeness.html\" class=\"video_teaser\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/images.ted.com\/images\/ted\/e6590fd9b49cdc7270dc0bc03593ee840f4a5585_240x180.jpg\" alt=\"Maria Bezaitis: The surprising need for strangeness\" width=\"132\" height=\"99\" \/>Maria Bezaitis: The surprising need for strangeness<span class=\"play\"><\/span><\/a> \u201cWhen we\u2019re at our best, we reach out to people who are not like us because when we do that, we learn,\u201d says Bezaitis, in this talk given at <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ted.com\/2013\/04\/08\/five-big-ideas-from-tedintel\/\">TED@Intel<\/a>. \u201cIn today\u2019s digital world, strangers are quite frankly not the point. The point we should be worried about is how much strangeness are we getting?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>To hear what she means by this, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/maria_bezaitis_the_surprising_need_for_strangeness.html\">watch the talk<\/a>. And below, check out more talks on the great things that can happen when we talk to people we don\u2019t already know.<\/p>\n<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/hannah_brencher_love_letters_to_strangers.html\" class=\"video_teaser\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/images.ted.com\/images\/ted\/61975945f445f27ab8d8f9da10f227dc0d36ce51_240x180.jpg\" alt=\"Hannah Brencher: Love letters to strangers\" width=\"132\" height=\"99\" \/>Hannah Brencher: Love letters to strangers<span class=\"play\"><\/span><\/a><b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/hannah_brencher_love_letters_to_strangers.html\">Hannah Brencher: Love letters to strangers<\/a><\/b><br \/>\nHannah Brencher doesn\u2019t just start casual chats with strangers \u2013 she writes them intimate, handwritten letters. In this talk from the TED@NewYork salon, Brencher explains how she lifted herself out of her post-college depression by leaving letters for strangers to find \u2013 and how this grew into a worldwide initiative intended to give anyone who needs it a boost.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/frank_warren_half_a_million_secrets.html\" class=\"video_teaser\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/images.ted.com\/images\/ted\/8dea31f46ce3d46c1c78e5505a8c46c5600765bc_240x180.jpg\" alt=\"Frank Warren: Half a million secrets\" width=\"132\" height=\"99\" \/>Frank Warren: Half a million secrets<span class=\"play\"><\/span><\/a><b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/frank_warren_half_a_million_secrets.html\">Frank Warren: Half a million secrets<\/a><\/b><br \/>\nPostSecret.com is a place that uses the anonymity of the internet to allow strangers to tell each other their deepest secrets &#8212; the things they would never dare to tell loved ones. In this talk from TED2012, Frank Warren shares how he developed this site, and reveals just a few of the half-million therapeutic secrets that have been sent to him.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/robin_chase_excuse_me_may_i_rent_your_car.html\" class=\"video_teaser\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/images.ted.com\/images\/ted\/32bf0a8880fea886c23edd03ccfa5c5748bde4c5_240x180.jpg\" alt=\"Robin Chase: Excuse me, may I rent your car?\" width=\"132\" height=\"99\" \/>Robin Chase: Excuse me, may I rent your car?<span class=\"play\"><\/span><\/a><b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/robin_chase_excuse_me_may_i_rent_your_car.html\">Robin Chase: Excuse me, may I rent your car?<\/a><\/b><br \/>\nSure, you might give directions to a stranger if they ask you on the street. But would you loan them your car? In this talk from TEDGlobal 2012, Robin Chase of Zipcar outlines her latest idea \u2013 Buzzcar, a French startup that lets people rent their cars to others, including people they don\u2019t know, in a protected, good-for-all-involved way.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/rachel_botsman_the_case_for_collaborative_consumption.html\" class=\"video_teaser\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/images.ted.com\/images\/ted\/8e7641dcd3c52ceb27772363bc9efbcfaf8f710a_240x180.jpg\" alt=\"Rachel Botsman: The case for collaborative consumption\" width=\"132\" height=\"99\" \/>Rachel Botsman: The case for collaborative consumption<span class=\"play\"><\/span><\/a><b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/rachel_botsman_the_case_for_collaborative_consumption.html\">Rachel Botsman: The case for collaborative consumption<\/a><\/b><br \/>\nHuman beings are wired to share. And a new slate of online businesses are providing avenues to match \u201cPerson A\u2019s haves with Person C\u2019s wants,\u201d says Rachel Botsman. In this talk from TEDxSydney, she shares the underpinnings of this new economy that depends on a wide network of strangers cooperating.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/jane_mcgonigal_gaming_can_make_a_better_world.html\" class=\"video_teaser\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/images.ted.com\/images\/ted\/157051_240x180.jpg\" alt=\"Jane McGonigal: Gaming can make a better world\" width=\"132\" height=\"99\" \/>Jane McGonigal: Gaming can make a better world<span class=\"play\"><\/span><\/a><b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/jane_mcgonigal_gaming_can_make_a_better_world.html\">Jane McGonigal: Gaming can make a better world<\/a><br \/>\n<\/b>Strangers gather to play online games like World of Warcraft for a total of three billion hours a week. In this talk from TED2010, game designer Jane McGonigal shows how that collaborative power could be used to tackle real-world problems like poverty, climate change and obesity. (Here, read about <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ted.com\/2012\/07\/09\/10-online-games-with-a-social-purpose\/\">10 online games with a social purpose<\/a>.)<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/hyeonseo_lee_my_escape_from_north_korea.html\" class=\"video_teaser\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/images.ted.com\/images\/ted\/2b3f77f722515fca6436901cb0b9f791beaa938a_240x180.jpg\" alt=\"Hyeonseo Lee: My escape from North Korea\" width=\"132\" height=\"99\" \/>Hyeonseo Lee: My escape from North Korea<span class=\"play\"><\/span><\/a><b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/hyeonseo_lee_my_escape_from_north_korea.html\">Hyeonseo Lee: My escape from North Korea<\/a><\/b><br \/>\nIn this powerful talk from TED2013, Hyeonseo Lee explains how a stranger helped her bail her family out of jail as she helped them escape from North Korea. She says, \u201cThe kind stranger symbolized new hope for me\u00a0&#8211; and for the North Korean people when we needed it most.\u201d<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>Bonus: In the TED Book,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ted.com\/pages\/tedbooks_library#DavyRothbart\"><i>How Did You End Up Here?: The Surprising Ways Our Questions Connect Us<\/i><\/a>, Davy Rothbart compiles 100 brilliant questions to help you break the ice with strangers. In this <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.ted.com\/2013\/02\/21\/ice-breakers-for-talking-to-strangers-a-qa-with-ted-book-author-davy-rothbart\/\">interview with the TED Blog about the book<\/a>, the creator of <i>Found<\/i> magazine answers the question, \u201cWhat do you think we gain from posing questions to people we don\u2019t know?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>  <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"http:\/\/feeds.wordpress.com\/1.0\/gocomments\/tedconfblog.wordpress.com\/75805\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/feeds.wordpress.com\/1.0\/comments\/tedconfblog.wordpress.com\/75805\/\" \/><\/a> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" src=\"http:\/\/stats.wordpress.com\/b.gif?host=blog.ted.com&#038;blog=14795620&#038;%23038;post=75805&#038;%23038;subd=tedconfblog&#038;%23038;ref=&#038;%23038;feed=1\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/feeds.feedburner.com\/~r\/TEDBlog\/~4\/FBnRDo85a-w\" height=\"1\" width=\"1\"\/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In today\u2019s talk, Intel engineer Maria Bezaitis brings up a fascinating point: why is the phrase \u201cdon\u2019t talk to strangers\u201d such a part of our cultural zeitgeist? 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